14 BIGGEST MISTAKES THAT DESTROYS LOVE-LIFE.


Love is a very beautiful thing and its good to share love that's why most times we engage in relationship. Have you being in a relationship that wrecked and you really want to adjust in preparation for  your next relationship, or you are in a relationship currently and you noticed that the smoke of your love is going down, here are some possible mistakes that you need to check out or to be careful about about, if not it will wreck your love-life.

👉NOT SPENDING GREAT TIME TOGETHER: It can affect relationships especially long distance. Have time together.

👉LIVING A FAKE PERSONA: Your persona outside or online is different from your real identity. they do this because they try to meet up, they act like wannabees.

👉NOT USING THE ASSURANCE WORD AT LEAST PERIODICALLY: At least two times a week, say this to your spouse, Thank You for loving someone like me, Thank you for saying YES to me, I will never forget that day you gave me the first kiss. I love you.

👉HAVING INSECURITIES: By raising suspicious thoughts in your heart towards your spouse and tracking your spouses phone, Placing password on your phones, lying consistently to your spouse, ,keeping your statement of account from your wife or husbands it can wreck your Love Life.

👉BE- LITTLING OR TAKING YOUR PARTNER FOR GRANTED: Don't try this, it kills the confidence of your spouse, it drags the attention of your spouse to someone else that can love him or her for who he or she is.

👉 CHEATING OR DOUBLE DATING: Well alright you can have friends outside who are different sex,  but never share intimacy with them.

👉 ENGAGING IN A MILITARY RELATIONSHIP: This where one man or woman gives directives and orders to follow without the other spouse opinion, it will one day wreck, because of too much fear, inconvenience and too much orders.

👉 ENGAGING IN A RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE OF PITY: If you enter a relationship based on this bases, you will end up being pitied. trust me.

👉NOT HAVING SELF LOVE FIRST: you should love yourself, if not, no one will love you the way you should have. When you love yourself, it boost your self- esteem, and this will never allow your partner, toss you around.it sure works from experience.

👉WORSHIPPING YOUR FIANCE INSTEAD OF YOUR HUSBAND : You should respect the man you are in relationship with but don't worship him yet, it should be what he awaits, till you both are married. if not in most cases, in no time such man will start assuming a husband position. there is a different between a husband and an intending husband.

👉 ENGAGING IN RELATIONSHIP DUE TO PRESSURE: Maybe you have being facing a challenge of being an older youth or you feel you need to meet up with your equal, you need to know that your timing and another persons own differs.

👉HOARDING YOUR PAST: Let your spouse know about your past no matter how bad it is

👉NOT BEING A GOOD LISTENER: People feel you love and care for them, when you listen to them. no matter how they present it.

👉.NOT BEING SELFLESS: People feel indebted to love you in most cases when they see you selfless nature.

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