PRACTICAL GUIDES TO OVERCOMING THE CHALLENGES OF RAISING YOUR MALE AND FEMALE TEENS.

There are numerous challenges facing the raising of male and female teens. there are several of them. especially when the environment they find themselves, because the environment, has a lot of impact on the development of kids.

there is even a higher risk or challenge when the housing or accommodation of the family is remote maybe, a one-bedroom or two-bedroom in ratio with the number of kids a parent has and the different sex or gender of their children, these all the possible links to challenges.

But don't worry because, you are safe with these possible, practical and trusted measures to apply.

👉START BY TEACHING THEM THE BEST ATTITUDE AND CHARACTERS THEY SHOULD HAVE; teach them how male ought to behave and guide them closely, because this is necessary in other to avoid, the the male behaving like females and the female as male which could lead to the act of being a cross dresser.

👉PREVENT THEM FROM BEING NAKED BEFORE THEMSELVES: it is necessary, you do such because they are teens and they have started to build feelings right from adolescent stage, and it is wise the separate gender abstain from being naked before each other as this might  prone them to incest practices.

👉USE PG'S ON YOUR TELEVISIONS: by such they will not be exposed to adult movies as this might stir up their emotions while watchin adult movie, remember that the eye- gate should be guided properly, because the brains of children are very smart in assimilation. and what ever they assimilates goes far with them.

👉MAKE THEM FOND OF YOU: by buying gifts for them, gifts are like charms, they grow fond of you and trust them to share their experiences with you that they had when you where at work.😏

👉DO MAKE SURE YOU SEND THEM TO LEARNING CENTRE WITH A POSITIVE SCHOOL CLIMATE: Noting that children do spend most of their hours in school environment, make sure the school you enroll them in, has positive remarks by other school leavers.

👉ENGAGE THEM IN FAMILY, MORAL AND BIBLICAL FELLOWSHIP: with this, you will be able to instill good tradition into them that will guide them till old age.

👉 ENCOURAGE THEM TO ATTEND SEMINARS: When they do attend these seminars, they tend to express themselves before the lecturer and also learn more from their peer's questions on their experiences too and from this, they start to build a better mindset.

👉RESPECT THEIR PRIVACIES AND PERSONAL SPACES TOO: Because after a long day and when they are within your space they are not free, but when they are alone they tend to free themselves and by so during you can lean by the door or set a CCTV to track whatever they are doing and correct them in love. and also you should knock on the other hand on their doors and wait for their response in case they are naked, so your sudden bumping into them won't make them rude to you and also make them shy to express themselves before you.

👉 SET BOUNDARIES: You should let them know what and what is acceptable in the family and with their behaviors, if abused, they will be grounded with certain educative punishment.

👉ENGAGE YOURSELF AS A PARENT IN TEEN SEMINARS: A tree can not raise a forest within a short while, so your engagement in seminars too, you can learn a lot from other parents and teachers too.

👉CONSTANTLY VISIT BLOG SITES ON CHILDREN, TEENS, AND FAMILY LIVING EDUCATION: It should be constant, as you tend to be updated about happenings and update skills to handle your mixed teens.

👉 PERIODICALLY ENGAGE THEM IN SEX ORIENTATIONS: It shouldn't be done all the time as it might instill fear in some kids, while some can get the ''used to the subject matter syndrome'' in them, and unseriousness in such orientations each time you try to bring it up in anyways.

👉 ESTABLISH AN OPEN RULE THAT THEY CAN CHANT AND EASILY REMEMBER: You can do that through a family anthem, or getting a wooden wall inscription made of your family rules, norms, or traditions.

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