TIPS FOR ''A PLANNED DATE'', IN A SOURED LOVE- LIFE.

A planned date is a date that both couples are very much aware about. and a soured love life is a love life that has being  once interesting, filled with joy, fun and understanding before, and with time, it grew cold and lost those taste.

On my podcast, ''mumzibah talks'' I coached couples about ''Activites to Rekindle A Soured love life'' you can check this out also to learn more.

the tips for a planned date, in a soured love life, are few but are very trusted to get fast and exact solution to this scenario, ''soured love life''.

👉Visit the place your spouse really admire to visit: this is a very good plan to first put into consideration before setting out on a planned date with your spouse. having in mind that the relationship has been soured for some time, so this one action will first create an impressive thought in the heart of your spouse, and know that ''environment also speaks''

👉Take the first blame and be warmth: say the first word kneeling or looking straight into your spouse eyes, you can also ask for his or her hands warmly and softly. the first word that ought to come out from your mouth, is ''I'm so sorry for all my wrongs'','' i know i have being so childish, please forgive me I'm an imperfect being''. This action may look strange and awkward, especially, when you feel he or she is the one to be blamed. But, it is sure a good way to start, because its like you are speaking straight to the conscience of your spouse directly. this act works like magic and then it melts his or her heart the more.

👉 Seal your first word with a magic action: a kiss on the forehead of your spouse is better. it means he or she is well adored by you.

👉 Share cheers and romantically focus on the eyes of your spouse: you won't make it so obvious but almost when some discussions get intensive, you can bring this action up. don't over stir at the eyes of your spouse, because it could make him or her  scared, instead let your heart lead you, because it can never lie.

👉Make it a centered date too: that means no phone calls, your phones should be switched off, and don't allow distractions too. be focused on your spouse. it makes your spouse feel so special.

👉Reassure him or her of your love: why you should do this is because it will open up your spouse's heart, better for an open and true discussion with you.

with this steps, the floor for discussion is open, you have succeeded to win his or her heart to willfully pour out her feeling to you without retention nor resentment.

👉Let the discussion be done sequentially: your husband or fiancé first, when he or she is done, uninterrupted, then the next spouse will start by saying ''I have heard you'' and pours out his or her heart too.

👉Seal the discussion up: seal it up with a kiss, agreement and new rules in other to avoid the repeating of the previous scenario, seal it up with jointed prayers, inviting God to take the lead in the relationship, and seal it up with love making there was, its good for perfect bonding.

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