FOUR TIPS TO APPLY WHEN YOUR CHILD THINKS DIFFERENTLY.

 


WHO IS A CHILD

A  child is anybody or individual within the range of zero to twelve years. and within this range, a child expects guidance, formation mechanism from parents and societies

A child is an individual who looks totally to people or his parents for full support. 

the four tips are listed below. 


👉THE COME CLOSER  TECHNIQUE

It is a very important and powerful technique to use on such kids. you will agree with me that many things contribute to a Childs attitude apart from DNA.

When you go closer to your children whose behavior is suddenly change into an unwelcoming, questionable and sudden, the strengths behind this technique is that, such children become fund of you to the extent of trusting you with his or her gains or achievement, weakness or pitfalls. through this medium, you are gradually winning the child over to your tune.


👉STUDY YOUR ACTIONS AND REACTIONS

For instance, ''how you as a parent relate with callers via calls '' it sure matters a lot. like insulting and using threatening words on your phone callers before their presence matters much.

''how you relate with your children via your moods, also counts. even how you insult your wives as  a father and husband as a mom, it goes a long way from their eyes to their brains. they can start putting some rough actions and reaction of yours into an attitude.

''kids learns faster and better in their comfort zones''. parents and guidance are the first assumptions of ''comfort zones'' to kids.


👉BUILD ON THEIR SELF ESTEEM

Its very good that children esteem are positive and not low esteem.

When their self esteem is low, their educational growth, social lifestyles and remarks in life may not be of high performance and this might lead to poor success growth or accreditations.

So what to do if your child is exhibiting this character, is to check what might had resulted to that. and two things that can lead to such is peer  group influence which could had being negative towards them, favoritism- parent most time unconsciously involve themselves in this practice, and it is very bad as it could lead to jealousy, strivings among siblings, fighting and rivalries. 

Instead of such actions towards your child especially maybe when they didn't do well at school activities as you expected, or in any of their pitfalls, take them out, take them to shopping malls, buy them chocolates, applause the child for doing well in school but, draw him or her closer later and tickle this into his or her ears, ''you are the best among your equals, this I know, but i sure know next session you will do better than this, and I will get you a bigger toy, game pack, chocolate pack, and many of the likes''.


👉PRAY FOR YOUR CHILD

prayers are spiritual mediums you can also use to impact into anyone's life.

night and sleep phenomenon are great times you should speak over your Childs life better.

night times are high spiritual transaction times and sleep periods are most times creations happen, like the story of the creation of eve creation through Adam's rib.

enforce positive words through prayers into your Childs life during this times mostly and you will see it work like magic.

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